all bad, harmful and unhealthy habits are part of a person's life much faster than good.Smoking person gets used faster than a gym.Alcohol prefers soft holidays, drug substitutes lack of joy in life.But to say goodbye to these addictions is much harder than it used to.And no doubt each dependent person tried to quit smoking, drinking, drug use, but to no avail.So how do you stop drinking once and for all?
Drinker husband, brother, son - real grief in the family.The severity of the relatives and friends of the situation is compounded by the fact that alcohol-dependent person does not want to be aware of their affection for him, it is a disease.How to get him to stop drinking?
Yes, it is very difficult, but in this case, as indeed in all situations, when used violent impact, the result will be.You can not force an adult to do what he wants.Therefore, you need to think about how to make sure that he wanted to get rid of the addiction to alcohol.A desire and motivation - this is very important, without the
second point.An important role in the life of every person plays his relationship with his father.Psychologists have concluded that paternal power is needed for each of us.It is the foundation of our spiritual strength, durability and hardness.If a person is not enough emotional connection with her father, or her lacked as a child, he did not have the strength to build their lives normally.Lack of vitality manifests itself in the craving for drinking, living with addictions.What to do if the father, for example, long ago died or threw his son, when he was very young, and he grew up without a father?Correct children's grievances and past life impossible.It is necessary that such a person has gained the strong support and assistance in this life.This can be a strong and strong-willed wife, a good friend, a brother, a colleague who is an authority for the drinker.
Very often the reason for a person to enter the network of alcohol is a sense of guilt for a specific action.And here, too, it is important to find out what it is eating, what he regrets, and that tries to forget with a glass in his hand.
When people realized that really depends, he needed help to stop drinking, and it must be done without criticism, and mentions of past drinking bouts, the binge, the lost money.The past can not be changed, but today, tomorrow and the future life can always send in the right direction.
How to help engage with alcohol drinker husband?No one knows the man as well as his wife.She is well aware that the reproaches and tears on this person for a long time do not work.Therefore, we must take good and wise.Often talking to her husband, and how good he is special praise for the creation of his hands, and kindness to children, ask for something to do for them to take his time and useful activities to distract from the drinkers and drinking.
In the end, an effective method is to change the situation.If he will not meet "colleagues in a bottle", then get rid of the addiction will be much easier.Many women simply take away the men in another city, to their parents or relatives for a fundamental change in the environment.
If the wife and other family members will be treated to a man as an equal, not blame, and ask for help, not ridicule, and to engage in economic affairs, not to be angry, and to communicate, it will increase the self-esteem dependent person.It will gradually change the way of life.
Drinker person usually "sinks" because they do not see the point of his life.Help him to find joy in family, work, faith, hobbies.Busy man - the best doctor for the soul.And you know know better than the take and where to direct the energy, time and energy dependent relative.We need to find the lever, which will include a mechanism to return to a healthy and fulfilling life.
Stupidity is contagious.Any human weaknesses are stupid, which someone once infected person.Of course, he himself wanted it, and eventually hooked alcohol dependence.So, awareness is the wrong life.And what do you do next?How to change it?As yourself and for all put an end to alcohol captivity?
It's no secret that women are becoming alcoholics more quickly than men.They were to do this, only some 3-4 years.
honorable mission woman - procreation.And it is absolutely not compatible with alcohol and addictions.
narcologists ascertain that cure alcohol addiction of the fairer sex is much heavier than a man.This process is longer, it failures happen more often.
Causes of female alcoholism - is unfavorable living conditions and strong stress, communicating with the men drank and loneliness.
If a woman does not stop in time, you can simply miss the point, and then it will slowly die.Women's dependence on alcohol is so strong that even knowing about the development of serious diseases such as Cancer, it will not throw a drink.For her, it is no longer a threat, in contrast to the male alcoholics.
most significant and valid incentive to stop drinking for a woman - the family and the child.After all, the maternal instinct in women laid down by nature.And if relatives know that she is a good mother, the child loves and cherishes them, you can contact the social services so that their representatives have threatened her deprivation of maternal rights.The threat of deprivation of contact with the child or children - a factor shakes.This applies to the majority of mothers.
If a woman alone (perhaps this fact and has become a stepping stone to the development of alcohol dependence), the people close to her have to find a way to help change her surroundings and environment.We are talking about moving to another city, and on the precipice of perverse relationships.In most cases, they do not give the possibility to start a new, or rather, return to the old, healthy life without alcohol.
Therapies alcoholics are the same as the treatment of male alcoholics.But such therapy lasts much longer.What forms of treatment will be applied to the dependent woman, tell an experienced psychiatrist who need to entrust the fate of the patient.Rehabilitation of women will be too long, and at this stage is very important to support a friend, mother, sister, and a man who may have been a woman before the onset of illness.The resumption of dialogue with them will be a good incentive to return to the old world and healthy life without alcohol.